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The Price of Staying Close

Sometimes being close to someone costs more than it’s worth. That isn’t just romance. It shows up in families, friendships, jobs, groups you

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The Gospel of Root

I do not chase the East for its mysteries, nor the past for its ruins. I stand where I am. My feet press into this

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The Gospel of Storm and Stillness

Violence is my liturgy and tenderness my temptation, for I take with storm and with stillness alike. There are nights when I descend  like thunder,

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Embodied Rituals

Not all kink is equal. Some of it is performance. The hitting of beats. The following of scripts. The meticulous choreography of boxes to check.

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Needs vs Strategies

Needs vs Strategies Needs vs. Strategies Part I: The Problem – Alienation from Ourselves Today I want to talk about three books and why they helped

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Passing Out

First, a word of clarity: I’m not a doctor, and this is not medical advice. If you faint in ways you can’t explain,

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Erase the Word, Reclaim the World

A recent comment sent me this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jBkbyrlUE3M. It reminded me of something I have yet to write—the power

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Step Into the Fire, its warm

Fine. Make me your villain. You could have walked away, but you stayed. You screamed. You dragged a crowd to watch me fall—now you’

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