We Forgot How to Be Real
I’m not trying to be mean. I’m not here to hurt anybody’s feelings. But somebody’s gotta say it — a lot of
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Sometimes Leaders Make It Worse
the ones meant to protect—end up causing even more damage. So let’s talk about it. Let’s talk about the fact that, in
What Are We Doing Wrong?
We talk about building community like it's host the play party, hold a few consent classes, add a Discord server, and boom But
Consent, Connection, and Community Integrity
Don’t Play With People You Don’t Know Many consent violations happen because people jump into play without knowing each other well enough. When
How I Learned to Mitigate the Risk of Consent Incidents (The Hard Way)
This is my story of how I learned the painful, exhausting, and sometimes devastating lessons around mitigating the risk of being involved in a consent
Judged by Their Shadows…
You ever notice how folks size you up through a lens that ain’t yours? You could be walking clean, kind at your core, trying
Rope Safety
This is often the second conversation I have. Here, I tend to disagree with the majority on what safety in rope looks like. Fundamentally, I
A Demon That Never Left
Teeth bared behind false smiles. Of storms that didn’t pass, you’re still here. Watching me unravel. Cracking open—ugly, cruel, divine. I didn’
All I Ever Wanted Was Community
All I ever wanted was community.That might sound naïve in hindsight, but it was real. I entered these spaces hungry for connection, for chosen
Rope is a drug.
Not metaphorically. I mean it hits your brain and body like a substance. It alters you. It seduces you. It reveals things you didn’t